We Are All Controlling

We shy away from the word control, we fear it. No one wants to be the controlling friend, partner or person.

But we are all controlling, we all hold on, resist and control so many factors in our lives.

We control by blocking ourselves, avoiding, procrastinating, micromanaging, projecting, worrying.

We all have things we control, time, food, money, materials, people, our wildness....

But something that isn't moving forwards and towards Dharma is stuck and held in karma.

This season and with the turn of Autumn this week, your wildness, the cyclical you, your soul is asking you to loosen your grip and let some things go. Just as the trees will start to turn and shed, it's time for you follow soon enough.

Notice where you tend to hold, control, over organise. Where is your own personal neurosis around control? We all have it....

Is it to avoid your power?

Is it to try and heal those who don't want to change?

Is it constantly worrying about money?

Is it staying in an old location because a move feels too hard?

How are you controlling and holding on, what are you not letting flow?